KNOWLEDGE FOR THE SINGLE LADIES
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This post right here holds basic truths that most ladies going into relationships overlook. For these reasons and a few more many start their relationships on a happy note but end up crying and heart broken. Your problems are half solved when you have foreknowledge of expectations and happenings in any venture you want to undertake.
Here are 10 things
sweet ladies like you should know
1. You Must Love Yourself Before You Can Love Someone Else
No one is going to complete a you that isn't already whole. You must be in love with yourself before anyone else can be in love with you. Often, what motivates you to seek acceptance from others is really a desire to accept yourself - so, make yourself your own biggest source of self-esteem and others will be drawn to your sparkle!
2. Slow Your Roll!
A lot of those ooey gooey couples claim that they knew on the first date that this was the person they are going to marry. Well, no matter how many times bae tells us that if he likes it, he better put a ring on it, try and keep this in mind: Not every date is a potential mate. One good date shouldn't have you sending out the save the dates. This puts unrealistic expectations on both of you, and can cause you to obsess and come on too strong. Relax and get to the know the person - and stop imagining what your future kids are going to look like!
3. A Man Is Not A Lump Of Clay For You To Mold
It's a cliche - a woman marries a man hoping he'll change, a man marries a woman hoping she won't. The truth is, don't expect to change ANYONE - unless you're a particularly good hypnotist. While you certainly have the right to express your opinion and suggest to your partner expectations you have, at the end of the day, the decision to make a change is entirely theirs.
4. Don't Expect Different Results If You're Repeating The Same Actions
It's so easy to fall into a pattern - and, when we've been a loop for so long, we may come to think of that way of life as normal. Dating the same type of guy or repeating the same behavior in a relationship is bound to yield the same results. If you want a change, then do something differently.
5. Enjoy Yourself While You Can
Believe it or not, you're most likely not going to be single forever - so, enjoy the time you have with yourself and use it productively. Work on your career, your physical, mental, and emotional well being, and getting yourself into a place where you can offer someone the best of you. But, have some fun too! There's never going to be a better time to write that novel, take that French cooking class or book those luxury holidays that you've always wanted to.
6. Don't Make Excuses For People Who Need To Be Excused From Your Life
There are two kinds of people who you don't have time for - the ones who are dead weight and the pop-ins. The dead weights take your time and energy while giving you little or nothing in return - while the pop-ins come and go at their whim, leaving you wondering. It may be difficult to let go of these people, but once you do, we promise, you'll feel lighter and more in control of your life.
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